Genuine Question about Enforcement

For some reason, every month now for about 3-4 months now I've been communication suspended, and it always happens in between the month usually from 20th to a couple days before the end of the month. I wait it out because I first thought I did something each time but then I realized I get flagged even though I do nothing. I don't message anybody on Xbox because each person I communicate with I have them on Snapchat or iMessage, because most of them don't like using Xbox messaging. Each suspension is 3 days long, but the system is each suspension you get it increases the days but it's a steady 3 days. I'm trying to become Ambassador, but I can't because of these random communication suspension. Customer Support obviously can't do anything but neither can the Enforcement team because on the website there is no sign of the notice, it just sends me two of the exact email about it and tells me on Xbox but when I try to submit a case review it isn't on the website. I play mostly Social Games on Xbox and I can't because each time its a full communication ban where every social aspect is blocked. This 3 day communication i got on the 23rd which is nearly the exact date of the last one ends in about 8 hours but I don't get why I keep getting flagged on the 20th+ each month now. Is there a way to solve this issue, or am I going to keep getting communication suspended and also when I check the Enforcement History even after the suspension is removed nothings there seeming like it never happened. I don't know what to do anymore.

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