minecraft mobile will not let me connect to servers

When i join friends minecraft world or provided minecraft servers ot lets me in for anywhere between 10s-90s and then kicks me out and says “disconnected from server” peopel say perhaps its your cwifi connection but i know its not be ause i even tried
playing on mobile and it didnt work i even tried it with just my phone service and it did the same. So is it a poroblem with my microsoft account? I check my settings and its opened to allowing me to be able to join others nad play with others but it still
doesnt work. Please help i love playing minecraft alot and this just aucks only being able to play alone in a regular solo world

Are you playing with mobile connection or with wifi connection?

Mobile connection is not strong enough to keep your account connected to the server. Best is to connect with wifi connection.

Hey there PvT Coche!

Sorry about the disconnects. Can you share your detailed network statistics from under network settings so that we can best help out? Thanks!

Is your friend connecting with a mobile network or with a wifi connection?

Mobile connection is not strong enough to keep the connection to the server long enough. Best is to use a wifi connection.

Hi AlanKasprzyk

Here is a link to the FAQ for the Minecraft Better Together update and specific question you have asked:

Better Together FAQ | Minecraft

Q: Can I still access other servers via direct IP connect?

A: Players will still be able to access servers from beyond the servers listed in the server browser from mobile. On consoles, due to platform restrictions, server access is limited to partner servers only.

Hope that helps.